What Has Happened?

        Yeah, my readers who do not exist.. what has happened? Two years back, things were going smooth and we were happy.. like REALLY happy. But now, things easily turn sour and we often get into 'cold wars' amongst each other. What has happened to our camaraderie? our friendship? Maybe it's because I'm too used to them that I take them for granted. Or maybe I'm just frustrated that things have gone dull and boring. Life has become plain and a mere routine to be followed. An idle mind is the devil's workshop. Boredom often leads us to do things that we aren't proud of. Maybe it's just pride. The stubbornness to give in, to compromise.

It's true that life is too short to be filled with regrets. I guess it's time that we look at who our friends actually are and treat them right. We should cherish our real friends. We should not waste our time to chase after those who do not treat you the same way or even satisfy their needs simply because we want to please them.

Sigh, this is so true. What made the change? Perhaps making new friends will affect the dynamics of the group. When others come into your life, changes will occur. Especially when there are girls involved. Things become personal and emotion gets into your way. Life gets more complicated, even more so considering that there are more people to please. 

That's all for now. Signing out ~

Regrets

Every once in a while we tend to look back at the things we almost certainly should have done. It is often said that it is better to do something than regret it later. There will always be the 'what-ifs'. What if this and that would have happened? Although we may be afraid of the consequences of what we may have done but I guess it is more painful to recall what we have failed to do. We are all victims of emotion and the feeling of regret is part and parcel of our lives. 

Common regrets that we have faced:

* Failing to revise for our exams although we tell ourselves otherwise

* Not attending an event or an outing just because we are afraid that things may not go as planned

* Failing to learn something new or be productive especially when there was the opportunity to do so

* Not taking the initiative to make new friends

* [insert your own]